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A response to “the games that they played” September 19, 2010

Posted by meattofu in Living Matters, Ming, Relationships, Sex, Sexuality.
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I find Neil Strauss’ list (or the “eleven simple steps”) disturbing because the list goes from coy under-playing to downright coercion. Words like “disarm”, “isolate”, and “extract” do not sound remotely romantic or even dirtily sexy to me. (more…)

The games that they played: Part 3 of 3 September 18, 2010

Posted by okiamag in O Kia, Relationships, Sex, Sexuality.
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By Levi

Another national bestseller author also has a lot to say in this subject matter. To Robert Greene, it narrows down to an art inThe Art of Seduction. There are lots of steps in his art, but here are my favorite five:

1) Appear to Be an Object of Desire – Create Triangles. Create an aura of desirably by being wanted by many people. Make him crave to win your attention

2) Keep Them in Suspense–What Comes Next? – Calculated spontaneity. You have the control and he have the surprise. It will also keep him interested.

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The games that they played: Part 2 of 3 September 16, 2010

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By Levi

Neil Strauss, a New York Times and Rolling Stone writer would also agree. After all, he once was an “average frustrated chum” who became a revere pick-up artist in the “seduction community.” His resume included A-listers such as Lisa Leveridge, Courtney Love and even Britney Spears.

In his New York Time, Amazon and national best seller, The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artist, Neil narrows it down to eleven simple steps:

Step 1: Select a Target – but initially give all the attention to his friends instead, and let him starve for your attention

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The games that they played: Part 1 of 3 September 15, 2010

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By Levi

What are the rules of attraction? How do you conquer the person that you’re so deeply infatuated with? Who will win the game of love? Sean, a spoiled drug dealer, Lauren, a moody dreamer or Paul, a bisexual who anything that he says is open for interpretation?

Aside from the drugs, pornography, booze, masturbation, blow jobs, attempted suicide and rape (more…)